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Components

1. Disciplines

1. Bothers Me Log - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/discipline-1-bothers-me-journal.html

2. Anger Workout - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/2-anger-workout.html

3. Inviting Critical Feedback - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/3-critical-feedback.html

4. Suspending Self-Soothing - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/4-self-soothing.html

5. Self Care Routine - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/5-self-care.html

6. ACE - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/6-ace.html

7. Statement of Accountability - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/7-statement-of-accountability.html

8. Apology and Forgiveness - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/apology-and-forgiveness.html

9. Framework for Creative Conflict Resolution - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/framework.html

10. Conflict Resolution Meeting - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/conflict-resolution-meeting.html

2. Distinctions

Five Crucial

2.1.1. Feelings from Behavior - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/feelings-from-behavior.html

2.1.2. Event from Effect - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/event-from-effect.html

2.1.3. Effect from Cause - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/effect-from-cause.html

2.1.4. Need from Want - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/need-from-want.html

2.1.5. What we can do from what we cannot do - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/can-do-from-cannot-do.html

Others

2.2.1. Agreements and Understandings - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/agreements-and-understanding.html

2.2.2. Being and Doing - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/being-and-doing.html

2.2.3. Being angry and Having anger - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/being-angry-and-having-anger.html

2.2.4. Believing and Believing In - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/believing-and-believing-in.html

2.2.5. Change and Transformation - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/change-and-transformation.html

2.2.6. Conflict from Fight - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/conflict-from-fight.html

2.2.7. Differentiation and Integration from Dissociation and Fusion - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/differentiation.html

2.2.8. Expectations and Standards - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/expectations-and-standards.html

2.2.9. Feelings and Emotions - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/feelings-and-emotions.html

2.2.10. Hurt and Harm - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/hurt-and-harm.html

2.2.11. Reacting and Responding - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/reacting-and-responding.html

2.2.12. Responsibility and Accountability - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/responsibility-and-accountability.html

2.2.13. Simple and Easy - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/simple-and-easy.html

2.2.14. Subject and Object - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/subject-and-object.html

3. Glossary

1. Abuse - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/abuse.html

2. Accountability - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/accountability.html

3. Agreements - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/agreements.html

4. Anger - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/anger.html

5. Anxiety - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/anxiety.html

6. Apology - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/apology.html

7. Assertiveness - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/assertiveness.html

8. Blame (fault) - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/blame.html

9. Center of gravity culturally - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/center-of-gravity.html

10. Centering - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/centering.html

11. Cognitive Distortions - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/cognitive-distortions.html

12. Cognitive maps - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/cognitive-maps.html

13. Compliance - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/compliance.html

14. Conflict - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/conflict.html

15. Control - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/control.html

16. Culture - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/culture.html

17. Demands - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/demands.html

18. Discipline - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/discipline.html

19. Distinction - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/distinction.html

20. Dominance - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/dominance.html

21. Emotions: data and energy - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/emotion.html

22. Energy: physical and emotional - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/energy.html

23. Esuba - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/esuba.html

24. Expectations - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/expectations.html

25. Family of Origin and Generativity - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/family.html

26. Feelings: data and energy - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/feelings.html

27. Fiduciary relationships - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/fiduciary.html

28. Focus of attention - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/focus.html

29. Forgiveness - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/forgiveness.html

30. Gender - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/gender.html

31. Healthy (and Healing) - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/healthy.html

32. Hurt - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/hurt.html

33. Intimacy - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/intimacy.html

34. Justice - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/justice.html

35. Lines of Development - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/lines.html

36. Locus of attention - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/locus.html

37. Multiplicity of Mind - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/multiplicity-of-mind.html

38. Mutual relationships - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/mutual.html

39. Needs (as qualities) - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/needs.html

40. Normal - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/normal.html

41. Oppression - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/oppression.html

42. Passion - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/passion.html

43. Perspective, point of view, lens - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/perspective.html

44. Power - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/power.html

45. Promises - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/promises.html

46. Proximal Self - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/proximal-self.html

47. Reciprocal relationships - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/reciprocal.html

48. Relationships - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/relationships.html

49. Requests - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/requests.html

50. Resolution (of a conflict) - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/resolution.html

51. Responsibilities - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/responsibilities.html

52. Rights - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/rights.html

53. Safe and Satisfied - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/safe.html

54. Shalom - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/shalom.html

55. Stages of Development - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/stages.html

56. Standards - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/standards.html

57. Transformation - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/transformation.html

58. Trauma - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/trauma.html

59. Trust - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/trust.html

60. Violence - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/violence.html

4. Other Maps

1. The Problem

4.1.1. Broken Maps: out of date, different territory, too simple or too complex, cognitive distortions - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/broken-maps.html

4.1.2. Conflict Aspects: resource, identity, process - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/conflict-aspects.html

4.1.3. Conflict Intensity - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/conflict-intensity.html

4.1.4. Conflict Stages: strategy, event, quality - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/conflict-stages.html

4.1.5. Abuse: kinds of definitions for different contexts - to condemn or to transform, in mutual or fiduciary relationships - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/abuse-definitions.html

4.1.6. Abuse: what allows for it? Opportunity, Permission, and Motivation - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/abuse-allows.html

4.1.7. Systems of Oppression: - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/systems-of-oppression.html

2. Relationship

4.2.1. Accountability to and with in fiduciary and mutual relationships - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/accountability-to-n-with.html

4.2.2. Agreements: demands and requests, promises and compliance - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/ maps-1/agreements-durable.html

4.2.3. Balancing Rights and Responsibilities - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/balancing-r-n-r.html

4.2.4. Bonded and Bounded - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/bonded-and-bounded.html

4.2.5. Cycle of Intimacy - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/cycle-of-intimacy.html

4.2.6. Gender constructed by culture: emotion, dominance, and aggression - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/gender-construct.html

4.2.7. Kinds of Relationships: mutual, reciprocal, fiduciary - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/kinds-of-relationships.html

4.2.8. Patterns of Conflict - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/patterns-of-conflict.html

4.2.9. Power: power over, power with, empowerment - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/power-types.html

4.2.10. Significant Relationships - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/significant-relationships.html

4.2.11. Stages of Intimacy: 1+1=3 - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/stages-of-intimacy.html

4.2.12. Victims, Perpetrators, and Bystanders - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/victims-perps.html

3. Self-awareness

4.3.1. "Bad" Feelings: hurt, fear, sadness, anger, and guilt - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/bad-feelings.html

4.3.2. Anger and Desire - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/anger-and-desire.html

4.3.3. Anxiety and the Doing cycle: when maps don't work - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/anxiety-n-doing.html

4.3.4. Feelings: the interior domains of Sensation, Thought, Emotion and Wish. [intuition and imagination] - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/feelings-domains.html

4.3.5. Focus, Locus, and Lens - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/focus-locus-and-lens.html

4.3.6. Maps of Needs: personal, relational, and systemic - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/maps-of-needs.html

4.3.7. Orders of Self - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/orders-of-self.html

4.3.8. Stages of Development: sequential, invariant, hierarchical - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/stages-of-development.html

4.3.9. Tiers for Transformation: personal, interpersonal, intrapersonal, transpersonal - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/tiers.html

4. Technologies for intervention and transformation

4.4.1. Discipline components: intention, attention, repetition, guidance - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/discipline-components.html

4.4.2. Good Emotional Hygiene - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/good-emotional-hygiene.html

4.4.3. Language of Complaint: concerns, criticism, contempt, and control - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/language-of-complaint.html

4.4.4. Map of maps: where am I, where am I going, and how do I get there? - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/map-of-the-maps.html

4.4.5. Onions: Addressing a sticky situation - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/onions.html

4.4.6. Predicting the unwanted outcome - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/predicting-the-unwanted-outcome.html

4.4.7. Seven Steps to Addressing a problem - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/seven-steps.html

4.4.8. Stages and Styles in Conflict Resolution- Second order to Fourth order - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/stages-and-styles-in-conflict-resolution.html

4.4.9. Technologies for transformation: bridging, challenging, and modeling [resonance, rupture, and repair] - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/technologies-for-trans.html

5. Vision for who and how we might be

4.5.1. 3 A's: Awareness, Acting in our own behalf, Accountability - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/3-as.html

4.5.2. Assertiveness: Event, Effect, Need - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/assertiveness2.html

4.5.3. Assertiveness: responsibility and control - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/assertiveness1.html

4.5.35. Compassion: - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/compassion.html

4.5.4. Curious without asking questions - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/curious-without.html

4.5.5. Fighting without Fighting - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/fighting-wo-fighting.html

4.5.6. Going High and Going Deep - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/going-high-and-going-deep.html

4.5.7. Radical Accountability - http://www.creativeconflictresolution.org/jc/maps-1/radical-accountability.html